TEMPO.CO, Jakarta - Having a narcissistic partner may seem irritating. We are required to be patient. Narcissistic is not only showed the people who often doing a selfie.

Some of the following signs can be the clue to know whether your partner is a narcissist or not.

1. Speechy

Narcissistic people usually like to talk about themselves. They would be very upset if someone interrupted their talk. On the contrary, they will often interrupt other people's conversation to make the attention of the people around return to them. As a couple, we often have to work hard to be heard or to get their attention.

2. Rebel

Because they consider themselves as the most correct ones, people with narcissistic character will be lazy to follow the rules. They also often violate the rights of others, such as cutting the road while driving, cutting the queue, and even take the belongings of others without permission.

3. Ask to be privileged

According to narcissists, the natural treatment of others is preferential treatment. The narcissist people do not want to be treated the same as anyone else. They expect to get maximum service and take precedence in every opportunity.

4. Good at seducing

To get their wish, narcissist people will use a variety of ways. One of them is to do a seduction. When your partner often seduces or sweet-saying when wanting something, then return to being selfish when the wish is fulfilled, it could be he or she is a narcissist.

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