TEMPO.CO, Jakarta - Every person on earth must have a relationship with someone before finding that special one. That person, before meeting the special one, is called an ex-lover.

Eventhough our partner`s relationship with their ex-lovers may have ended, what if they are still overshadowing your relationship now? Here`s a few reasons out of many:

1. One circle of friends

If our partner turns out to be in the same circle of friendship with the ex-lover, they often can meet or hang out, but please do not panic. We should also not show any dislike expressions.

In addition, do not also try to be familiar with your partner’s ex-lover. Simply greet each other. If there are signs of the ex-lover trying to get close to our partner, show that now we are the loved one of our partner. The trick, can be done with a simple attitude like holding hands, do not overdo it when showing the romantic attitude.

2. Ex-lover still have feeling to our partner

If we feel that the ex-lover is still not willing to give up his/her ex-partner that is now with us, we must be extra patient and be full of strategy. Especially if the ex-lover is still looking for an excuse to contact our partner.

The important thing is, do not be emotionally provoked, let alone directly be angry at our partner. The important thing is that we should talk to our partner well and tell that if we do not like the condition. If the disturbance from the ex-lover getting much worse, we can directly make a contact with the ex and tell it to their face that we feel disturbed if our partner is often contacted.

3. Ex-lover is close to our partner`s family

Another difficult situation we may face is when our partner’s ex-lover is still close to our partner’s family. We certainly cannot interfere with this matter and indeed we should not be near this to take care of it.

The important thing is to make sure that our partner has become a better person when having a relationship with us. Thus, our partner’s family will not avoid us.

TABLOID BINTANG