4 Tips to Win the Heart of Man Like Nam Se Hee in BTIMFL
13 December 2017 12:28 WIB
TEMPO.CO, Jakarta - Cold-faced, expressionless men can often attract women. They can make women curious and want to know more about them.
Just like Ji Hoo in popular Korean drama “Because This is My First Life” (BTIMFL) who falls in love with Nam Se Hee, a cold-faced, expressionless man who is no other than her fake husband. In the drama, the woman’s love is apparently reciprocal since the man starts to fall in love with her.
The problem is that the man is too cold and is incapable of expressing love. So, how can Ji Hoo win Se Hee’s heart? Here are some tips as to attract such a man as seen in the drama “Because This Is My First Life”.
1. Know the character of your partner
To get a cold, heartless man to notice you is no easy task. Cold men are usually indifferent toward their surroundings. The trick to get his attention is getting to know things that he likes and dislikes. Thereby, he will slowly accept your presence.
2. Become a hard worker
After the man accepts your presence, show him that you are partner worthy. Be a hard-working or independent woman because cold, heartless men are not interested in dependent women. In “Because This Is My First Life”, knowing that Se Hee is a structured man, Ji Hoo tries to adapt with the man’s strict lifestyle making him realize that she is more valuable than previous tenants.
3. Know his past
You can find out about his past from his friends to prevent traumatic past experience from reoccurring and know his feelings. But it does not necessarily mean that you should delve too deeply into his past or interfere with dealing his problems as it can worsen your relationship. Let the man tell his past on his own will.
4. Be honest with yourself
However hard you try to win his heart, don’t forget to be honest with yourself which is important to show our true self. Being honest with yourself will also benefit you because men will fall in love with you for who you are.
ASTRIA PUTRI NURMAYA